Some men are intrigued by the idea that they are deprived of sexual pleasure and that sex is only a privilege that belongs to their partner. Everyone has their own fascinations and fantasies, and chastity for men is one of them.
Men interested in chastity find the fetish provocative and sexual, and they are often turned on by the sight of a chastity cage. Their fantasies are fueled by the idea that they are surrendering to their partner and succumbing to erotic issues. They are interested not only in physical arousal, but often in the interplay between ideas and their identity. For them, the game of chastity takes place primarily between the ears.
The fantasy centers on the idea that his partner (male/female) actually holds the key to his penis. His cock is hers and he relies on her to "release" his most precious body part. Therefore, the partner can even control how often and when he can masturbate. Because he can only play with himself if he lets the cage out.
The submission of a submissive man who favors a chastity cage is demonstrated by his desire to be locked up, loved and owned by his partner. By wearing a chastity cage, he shows that he wants to be faithful. He desires to escape his everyday reality to make room for his submissive feelings.
If you have a man with this fantasy, keep in mind that he needs a safe environment for this fetish. Playing with a penis cage requires complete submission and confidence.
For many men, remember that orgasm is also extremely erotic. Delaying orgasm as long as possible can enhance the eventual orgasm.
Many men interested in chastity cages view women as superior. For these men, complete surrender through a chastity cage is the ultimate way to demonstrate this. His goal is to please his partner, and he will always put the key holder's pleasure above his own. By wearing a chastity cage, he is able to do this better.
## Advice for Beginners
Many people start out in chastity without knowing exactly what to look for. That's why we at NBRplaza have interviewed a number of people who have a lot of experience with male chastity products. We've turned their experience into some tips:
## First learn to delay orgasm.
People often start chastity and deny orgasm at the same time. Sure, it's hot to spend your first orgasm denial period in a chastity cage, but you may simply not be ready. Wearing a penis cage is a thing in itself. If you have to get used to it, there's no use getting distracted by your need to orgasm. Try "drying off" for a few days first. Once you get used to it, you can start wearing a penis cage.
## Are you the right size?
The biggest mistake people make is buying the wrong size cage. Cages that are too big or too small can cause problems. Buying a properly sized cage is not that easy. In fact, you usually only know which size is right after you try it. That's why it's important that you first buy an adjustable penis cage, such as this one or the CB-6000, which come with rings of different diameters. The size of the cage itself is not as important as the size of the rear ring. If it's too big, the cage will slip, and if it's too tight, it will squeeze and impede blood flow. Adjustable cages are highly recommended for beginners!
Also measure the size of your (flaccid) penis to get an idea of the size of penis cage you need.
## Do you have the right style?
There are many different designs and styles to choose from. Some cages are very comfortable to use, but because they are "closed" it can be difficult to clean yourself or the cage properly while wearing them. This method works well for a few days, but then you have to take them off, for example to take a bath. Other designs are more "open" and allow you to wear them for longer periods of time. These are metal cages. Most are chrome-plated and reasonably priced, but they will rust over time. This is why it is best to use (medical) stainless steel or titanium. There are also manufacturers that produce customized cages, but you have to pay out of pocket. The "downside" of open design cages is that they don't completely prevent you from having an orgasm or playing with yourself.
## Take care of the skin
Don't think you can just buy a cage, put it on and be done with it. The difference is in the preparation. Start by trimming (but not shaving) the pubic hair. Sure it looks good, shaved scrotum this way, but it can be irritating. This is not recommended for beginners. The cut hair will not get caught in the hinges and locks, but the skin irritation will be limited.
Before installing the cage, it is recommended to apply a lubricant. Use a thick, water-based lubricant. Apply some lubricant to the skin to make it easier to wear. You don't want this to go away on its own, but you also don't want it to be impossible to move around in there.
Lubricant is always a good idea, but it's even more important with silicone penis cages because they stick to the skin more easily.
## Don't take too long to start.
Sure, it's cool to put it on and hand the keys to your mistress or your partner. Unfortunately, fantasy and reality don't always coincide. You're better off building it up slowly. Don't start wearing a chastity cage 24/7 right away. Start with an hour. Then remove it and let the skin breathe. You can put it back on at any time. Don't go too far from home immediately. Check regularly that everything is still in good condition. Especially the first few times, you will become excited very quickly. This makes putting it on not easy. Give yourself some time to get used to the idea. You may want to change rings again. Only once you have the right ring size and are used to wearing it can you start to build up time. Start with a couple of hours and then maybe a whole day. Make sure you have some lubricant with you when you go out. If the whole day goes well then take it off before you go to bed and give your skin a rest. Tomorrow will be another day.
Sleeping with a cage is a completely different feeling. Trust us, sleeping in a cage isn't that easy. Most men get erections in their sleep. Therefore, you should apply enough lubricant before sleeping. If your partner allows it, it might be a good idea to have an orgasm before sleeping in a cage. Make sure you don't have to wake up early the first time you go to bed the next day because you won't get much sleep. Also make sure your bladder is empty before you go to bed (a pressurized bladder is usually the cause of an erection during sleep).
## Keep a spare key on hand
Sure, the idea of the only key hanging around your partner's neck is cool. But just to be safe, make sure you have a spare key nearby, especially at the beginning. For example, some plastic seals can easily break in an emergency. They have a unique serial number so your partner can keep track of your chastity. Combination locks are also an option, as your partner can always provide you with the code remotely. In the past, spare keys were sometimes kept in sealed envelopes. Of course, you could also force open the plastic cage, but that's an expensive joke.
Only when you're completely used to it can you hand the key over to someone else and truly succumb to his or her whims. Don't forget to enjoy.
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## Useful Resources
Metal Chastity Cage and its Dynamics
A Guide to Using a Chastity Cage
Unlocking Intimacy: Exploring Chastity Cages and Relationship Dynamics
CHASTITY CAGES AND THEIR USES
Resin Chastity Cages: A Comprehensive Guide
